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  • TerminalEncounter [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    Theres a lot of gender stuff out there. Theres agender, nonbinary, gender fluid, trans femme but not strictly a woman, trans woman, etc.

    Yes, its true! Not everyone wants to be a girl even some of the time (almost all cis and trans guys do not want that, a lot of trans men go through a lot of pain and oppression in the effort to be a man).

    Did you try the website?

    • Lurkmore [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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      I did try the website and I liked it a lot. It was sweet. It’s really hard to embrace and conceptualize. If I was a woman all the traits I hate about myself as a man would be positives. I could be as soft, weak, and cute as I wanted. I could feel pretty and wear pretty clothes. I could walk different and talk different and act different.

      I can’t understand how everyone doesn’t see masculinity as horrible. I try to be as masculine as I can to fit my roll as a man and I hate it. I hate how men are. I can’t imagine wanting to be like any of them. I hate being included in their group.

      • TerminalEncounter [she/her]@hexbear.net
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        Why don’t you try wearing pretty clothes now? It’s Halloween! You could go out in a dress and makeup and no one will care.

        When I still boymoded (when I was presenting as a man publicly but I had already figured out I was trans) I used to wear a bralette and panties under my clothes and painted my toe nails. You can try different sets of pronouns on this site, which ones make your heart sing? You said you liked being called a good girl.