In the middle of posting this, someone just told me that many previously colonized countries have to outport their goods at an uneven exchange, and India has their culture as a product. Is there a lot of white washing disrespectful appropriation? Are there lots of cults too?

  • HexaSnoot [none/use name]@hexbear.netOP
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    6 days ago

    The “work through your issue” part seems creepy to me because why aren’t they being direct and ending that phrase with “sex/sexually”? If they really were experts wouldn’t they make sure communication is direct to help ensure only fully consensual things happen?

    What creeps you out about them saying “work through your issue”?

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      It wasn’t even the only mechanism to try to make me stay. After the thing, they “got covid” so the group attempted me to “stay isolated in the community”. And then the guy offered me a flat for the night. It really felt like they were creep who wouldn’t see me alone.

      Southern portugal is very beautiful though. Too bad there’s no portugese people left there

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        Did they check in on you too much? Seems like they would’ve gotten covid forever until you chose to stay forever on your own.

        Too bad there’s no portugese people left there

        That’s sad to hear. Did the Portuguese people mostly get driven out? I tried looking up if they’re still there, and the internet says they are.