Yeah, if anything 50 shades has made the scene a lot worse, because there are a lot of guys who want to be a Dom, but don’t want to actually put in the effort of caring about a Sub, they mistake role play for an actual full time relationship, and expect a small and meek obedient partner 24/7. It’s at the point where if I see a guy who says they are into BDSM as a Dom, I’m going to assume they are just an abusive asshole looking for a weak victim who won’t fight back.
Yeah, if anything 50 shades has made the scene a lot worse, because there are a lot of guys who want to be a Dom, but don’t want to actually put in the effort of caring about a Sub, they mistake role play for an actual full time relationship, and expect a small and meek obedient partner 24/7. It’s at the point where if I see a guy who says they are into BDSM as a Dom, I’m going to assume they are just an abusive asshole looking for a weak victim who won’t fight back.