• db0@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPM
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    “Cynical accusation of ableism” meaning when I explain my ND compulsions and coping mechanisms and got gaslit and told I’m just making it all up because I’m actually just a coward. Yeah Hexbear doesn’t tolerate albeism at aaaall when they cover up for the ableists among them. The self-righteous fucking accusation by more than one hexbear that I’m “using my neurodivergence as an shield” or “weaponising neurodivergence”, like every other fucking neurotypical tells us all our lives, being the cherry on top of this shit cake. Clearly ableism is using the R-word and nothing else. Go on, continue to dig that hole further.

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      I think Professor Owl already did a pretty good job of showing how you’re behaving pretty cynically here. For the record, I’m autistic too, and I also get into arguments pretty compulsively. I think that what you’ve done here shows a tendency to avoid personal accountability, though, because you’re just inflaming conflict then taking shelter behind your ability to problematize the people trying to hold you accountable.

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        I think Professor Owl already did a pretty good job of showing how you’re behaving pretty cynically here.

        We continue fucking injecting our own asusmptions onto me are we?

        I think that what you’ve done here shows a tendency to avoid personal accountability, though, because you’re just inflaming conflict then taking shelter behind your ability to problematize the people trying to hold you accountable.

        Motherfucker, I didn’t come into your house to start conflict! I posted in my own comm, in my own instance! Y’all came into my space and made your insecurities my fucking problem by shitting all over the floor en-masse (not brigading doe) and then you have the gall to argue that I’m “behaving cynically” when I’m using coping mechanisms to avoid my autism making me waste 1 whole week wasting my time arguing with terminally online tankies?

        Been there, done that, wrote the meme, learned from the experience.

        You have no idea what you’re talking about. You’re like those fucking stans of online personas who go and reply on the target du-jour and then whine “but I only left one reasonable comment, why the bad reaction? Come see the tolerant left.”

        I don’t give a fuck that you’re autistic. Not only we’re not the same, but you’re not in the same situation. Gaslighting me that my coping mechanism is “just cynicism” or “cowardice” is just defending ableism like the rest of your allies.

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          Motherfucker, I didn’t come into your house to start conflict!

          your posts get federated onto my feed, and honestly this comm sometimes has good memes so it feels super yucky to see a first-grade tier “le epic tankie ownage” meme when I take a look here. It reminds me of /r/196.

          I guess there’s a lot to be learned for all of us from this experience shrug-outta-hecks

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            You’re doing the same cynical thing right now. You’re just obstinately finding any reason to oppose Hexbear regardless of how valid it is!