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Cake day: August 16th, 2023

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  • CW: digestive issues, surgery, female reproductive crap, ER (Emergency Room)/hospital

    I kinda feel like death lately. I had abdominal surgery to help with my digestive issues and weeks later into recovery, I now have an infection in my intenstines. The pain was so bad I thought there was something wrong with my ovaries or uterus (that’s where my most painful pain comes from, but turns out they are mostly fine but inflamed as well for some reason). Since I’ve had chronic pain for most of my life, it was so hard to wait in a chair in the ER when it is too painful to sit and then much later on standing at the pharmacy for my meds when my legs were never able to stand for too long before all of this. I hate going to the ER so goddamn much and the pharmacy really should have chairs at least. The antibiotic I’m on is causing so much digestive issues (which I was warned about at least), I feel nasueous a lot and easily bloated by small amounts of food. I’ll spare you the details about my diarrhea. My stomach is constantly rumbly even as I type this. I am not going to die from this but I feel terrible.

    CW: weight management, body issues

    On a side note, I’m no longer overweight. I have been told by doctors before (that I have since ditched since they sucked at listening) that my chronic pain is caused by my weight. Yeah major [X] on that. My pain started when I was at a healthy weight and fairly active as a teen, and the pain contributed to me putting weight on and becoming inactive as an adult. Now, I’m technically not overweight but still want a few more lbs off since I’m not happy with my stomach yet. My pain has not really changed, not that I can notice at least. I’m still somewhat immobile and can’t use stairs.





  • Hi, I am the PTB that banned this user for 2 hours. As what was explained to you in the appeals channel, you’ve been trolling for months and when the person you troll gets mad, you report them for things like ‘incivility.’ You’ve done this many times to multiple users for months. That is why you were banned, not because of a specific thread and report. This was a warning to you to knock it off, as was explained to you.

    It was not made known to other admins that you had contacted db0 in advance of making your account that you were using your account just to do things like this. It makes a lot more sense now why there was this leeway. I thought trolling other users was against the rules, but it seems the rules are muddy about it. We have often been warning people through 1 day bans to knock things off. So your timeout seemed appropriate.