I’m 1000% behind trying to socialize and get a network IRL. A few issues being 1) how slow that is .2) how limited it is. Online chatting is efficient, effortless – although my own experience is doing less of that, both by choice, and in attempts to be more “private” and just because communities get slow or drop off or there’s no point because people ignore me. Discord is my #1 privacy sin as far as apps go. And even in this paranoia, IRL communication can have issues. What if they won’t use your special private app? What if they want to email? I keep seeing people say that putting someone in your contacts is bad for privacy but it feels wrong to lie to people like that. This, that, and the other, all with this obsessive management of how you’re presented, treating every text or post as a legacy, that I just can’t even comprehend.
I’d already given this kind of information elsewhere, many times, over years. Sometimes I regret it, and try to resolve not to do it anymore, or scrub accounts which feels good but people say it useless, but it always fails. In all honestly I don’t WANT to stop, because it has yielded positive results before, and because I literally don’t see much of a point in doing anything without at least the approximation of an online social life.
Meanwhile I’m taking sentiments like the OP to suggest that ALL online communication is unsafe. If I truly believed that everything was being stored to be used against me, or was secretly attached to my real name, I wouldn’t even give one-word inane responses to anything, much less discuss anything deeper or create anything.