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  • lib1 [comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    17 days ago

    In my experience, you’ll learn more from a month of experimentation than you will from years of ruminating about it. Try on clothing made for women. Try out some makeup. If your hair is short, maybe try on a wig. Even just change your pronouns on here to see how it feels. Whatever you can safely access, you should give it a try.

    Follow up each session of experimentation with some reflection and self care. You’re learning to love and be patient with yourself just as much as you’re experimenting with gender.

    And for reference, I didn’t fully accept I was trans until I was 2 weeks on estrogen. In a lot of ways, the doubt is built into the process.