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Despite all the trouble and hardship you were and still are facing, I am so immensely happy for you finally getting stuff going in a way that makes you feel better. Cutting back on alcohol is tough, and I really hope you can make it work. Being able to see your kids unsupervised is such a huge thing, really glad this worked out. Also, fuck your ex. Both you and your kids deserve better.
Really hope the band project works out and you can go ahead and make music. Would really love to hear some if it weren’t for the doxxing. Wishing you all the success and fun with it! This’ll be good for you, I’m sure of it. Just make sure to take regular breaks, alright? Watching shows seems like a good way of doing it btw, hope the shows remain to your liking. Take care of yourself, I’m proud of you!
Thanks for the inspiring words as always.
I could possibly figure something out to share the band stuff once it’s going without doxxing. Maybe dming? I’d like to be playing out in 6 months or so from the time we first start practicing.
Any time
I’d appreciate it, but don’t rush yourself on my behalf <3